How can you choose your destiny? Using the power of choice. If you don’t make the right choices or take the right decisions then someone else will and your life will be shaped by another person but not you. The good news is that every day of your life you can do it again.

Some of us think that our life is beyond our control or that everything is decided or written in stone and we are destined to live the life we are living, but that’s definitely not true. Each one of us shapes and chooses his or her own destiny taking the right or wrong decision every single day. When you wake up in the morning how you’ll live the new day is up to you. You decide what you’ll make of it, you and no one else. That’s how you choose your destiny, by doing or not doing something.

I don’t remember who said that every human beings creates the bars of his own prison, in his mind, but this is definitely a truth. But what is also true is that if it is so then every human being can destroy the bars of his own prison. Again using the power of choice.

While there is obviously an attitude part of your daily behavior, an innate way of dealing with life, the biggest ones comes from past decisions which with time has been transformed into habits, automatic responses to a stimulus. Just like driving the car, at first you must think about every move you make but later on it becomes exactly a habit reinforced every time you drive the car. With life is just the same so to choose your destiny you must choose to take different choices, if you’re unhappy with your life obviously.

The power of choice is that every single day you can either go the usual road or take a new, different one. If you need to change then you must do something different again and again until it becomes a new habit.

Your life is not written in stone, you make of it what you want every day by choosing to do or not to do, by saying yes or no, by doing always the same things or doing something new. You are the master of your destiny and you can choose your destiny to be what you want it to be. Every day is a new day and the most important one is today because it is now that you can do something. Yesterday has gone and tomorrow has yet to come but what are you going to do today?

This is how you choose your destiny or find your fate and if you’re unhappy with your life all you have to do is to take a different decision today and do something new then rinse and repeat. The power of choice is yours every single day of your life, use it or you’ll lose it. Are you going to fly high and free your soul or to get stuck where you are living an unhappy and unfulfilling or unsatisfactory life? Or are you happy with it?

How do you choose your destiny?

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