Are You Happy? Or Happiness is Your goal?
Come on, be honest, you know the answer. Our life is a search for Happiness, isn’t it? Being happy is the only thing that really counts and everything we want to achieve goes toward this goal. Or do you want to become rich, have a beautiful home, a family, a big car, even a boat for another reason different from feeling happy?
After having satisfied our basic needs what really matters is how we feel inside. Money for example is not important in itself but for the feeling it brings with it to you. You buy a diamond, but it’s not for the stone itself, it’s for the feelings that the stone gives to you, otherwise it would be just a stone, shiny and expensive but a stone nevertheless.
Some people in the Personal Development field think that Happiness is something we can experience just by being happy whatever happens around us; it’s a state of mind more than a tangible thing. I disagree a bit, a Positive Attitude toward life surely helps, and it’s needed, but for me Happiness comes from becoming a better person, achieving goals and dying knowing that we are better than when we were born.
Happiness is not in what we get, it’s in how we get!
Happiness is in the little things but not in dreams alone.
Happiness is a feeling but we can’t experience it just by opening our eyes in the morning and saying to ourselves “I’m very happy today”. We experience it when we improve ourselves and we know it, when we reach a goal because our efforts were well organized and aimed correctly, when we are able to change a life begun in the worst conditions in what we wanted. When we are aware that waking up in the morning is already something to be happy for. When we are still able to be amazed seeing a caterpillar becoming a butterfly.
If you are born poor but die rich is the money earned which makes you happy or the changes within yourself needed to create that money? Is it the physical money or how you feel having earned it? And could you feel so good just by imagining it or do you need something touchable to spark Happiness?
We live in the real world and Imagination is surely the most important tool of Personal Development, otherwise why should have I studied Hypnosis, and you need it to reach your goals but alone it won’t bring any positive change in your life. It’s needed to bring changes in the real world but in itself is useless.
You need Action!
Personal Development is not about dreaming, it’s about doing. Happiness is a state of mind surely influenced by how we approach life but brought by what we do in our life.
Now. don’t get me wrong, Happiness is not about money, it’s about becoming a better person and being able to appreciate all the little gifts that life brings to us every day. Once you have enough money to cover the needs of you and your family it’s time to shift to other goals, you’re not greedy right?
Reduce your negative sides and improving the positive ones, having a better heath, appreciating more your family and your loved one, learning new things, becoming overall better.
The Key to Happiness is becoming a Better Person.
And this is the goal of this website, showing you different ways to improve yourself and die better than when you were born enjoying life at the best of your possibilities. It might be that we have more than one life but why waste this one?
Why live like a caterpillar when you could, and can, be a butterfly?
To Your Happiness!